Divorce is the number one cause of poverty for women in developed countries. My economist friend once told me that. I hate being called a “mom”. It feels like a box, one in which there is a tired rundown woman wearing a food-stained house dress, chasing badass kids around the room, and who has long
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Your Man Does Not Consider You His Professional Equal
Are we equal? I am a lawyer, working, mother of three. My husband has a big career which unlike mine, has never been interrupted by childbearing and rearing. He travels regularly for his job, and in any given week could be in six different cities or countries. I am so accustomed to his traveling that
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Orgasm Envy – Women Get Off Men Get Jealous
I can only come when I’m on top. I can only come when we do it doggy style; in reverse cowboy; when I play with myself; alone. Why is the female orgasm so damn complicated? Men stand up sit down turn around upside down, and still come and shoot their ejaculation all over your face
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The Anti-Wife – Bad Girl On Purpose
Apparently there are two types of women: Wife and others. The term “wife” seems to describe the good girl, the one you marry because she will likely be amenable to domesticity. That is, she will cook, take care of your home, bear and rear your children, perhaps even earn a buck or two for the
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On Choosing Between Your Family and Your Freedom
I have always been fascinated with the idea of marriage. I have been married for about ten years and have three very young children. Ever since I was a little girl my greatest ambition was to have a kick-ass career. That’s it. Not marriage, not children. It isn’t that I didn’t want them, they were
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What to do when you can’t get it up
I could not „get it up“. I officially lived most men’s nightmare. It was the first time, well it was supposed to be the first time and I, the girl in this particular equation, in eloquent man speak, “could not get it up”. Disaster. We had been dating, we were young. I adored him (still
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Ho Season – Winner Loser or Right in the Middle?
Recently I was talking to a friend on the phone and we were trading stories of our latest antics. As men are our sport, of course that is what we were talking about. I asked her what was happening on the man scene and her answer startled me. It was, verbatim, “I don’t know, I’m
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Sex Is Not Just 11 Minutes
Sex is art. And if you are lucky, skilled and willing, it is a masterpiece. Created through words, continued through touch, immortalized through memory which can cause your body to convulse indefinitely afterwards. It’s a message sent in anticipation during the day. Followed by sitting with your lover deep in stimulating conversation about philosophy, human