I could not „get it up“. I officially lived most men’s nightmare. It was the first time, well it was supposed to be the first time and I, the girl in this particular equation, in eloquent man speak, “could not get it up”. Disaster. We had been dating, we were young. I adored him (still
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Ho Season – Winner Loser or Right in the Middle?
Recently I was talking to a friend on the phone and we were trading stories of our latest antics. As men are our sport, of course that is what we were talking about. I asked her what was happening on the man scene and her answer startled me. It was, verbatim, “I don’t know, I’m
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Sex Is Not Just 11 Minutes
Sex is art. And if you are lucky, skilled and willing, it is a masterpiece. Created through words, continued through touch, immortalized through memory which can cause your body to convulse indefinitely afterwards. It’s a message sent in anticipation during the day. Followed by sitting with your lover deep in stimulating conversation about philosophy, human
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So much fuss over 11 short minutes
The Long Game On average sex lasts 11 minutes. There is a book with the same title, it is a hot book, they have a lot of very well written hot sex. I recommend you read it: 11 Minutes by Paulo Coelho. Do we need the short game? I often wonder what is all the
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New York City Bump in the Night
There is a reason that NY is the only city on earth which warrants the “I love” t-shirt. I recently lived there for almost a year for a project, and my time there is unforgettable. Despite my ridiculously small studio and the fact that I had no friends, it was the time of my life.
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The 12 Rules of Adulting
The 12 Rules of Adulting: You should know the exact number of beverages you need to drink before you make a total dick of yourself or before you try to have sex with your boss. You have at least once said “in my day” when traveling on public transportation in terms of too many zombie
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99 Problems but the Bitch ain’t one
Subject: Me on destroying it before it even begins, a new record. Btw, who only has 99 problems anyway? Question: Is it better to have loved and lost or not to have loved at all? Is it easier to simply never put yourself in a place where you could be left broken? How many of
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The Chemistry of Obsession
There are two kinds of sex: Hot and Dirty. This is the fun kind, the one that everyone leaves happy or at least unbothered. You enjoy sex for just a physical release. You know the scene, those are the people who go on the hunt to get off. No strings attached, just bumping bushes until